To reach out, or not to reach out?

Someone I haven't spoken to since college (so 8 years) has been vaguebooking pretty hard lately. That generally annoys me, but it's also kind of unlike him. In high school and less so in college, we were pretty good friends and I think he's a really sweet guy who's kind of had a shitty time of it, and got teased a lot… » 3/24/15 12:17am Tuesday 12:17am

Wedding Question #98767829440 (registry)

So I apologize if I keep doing this more increasingly, haha. I am just an uncivilized menace in disguise, it seems, and have no one I trust about etiquette-related things. I don't trust anything I see about etiquette, because everything I read online is like, SO by the book it seems antiquated, or SO off the rails… » 3/22/15 11:25am Sunday 11:25am

Why is this Republican Letter to Iran Nonsense Not Treason?

Seriously. (note: not a legal or constitutional scholar here). Explain to me like I'm 5. Because it seems like intentionally undermining our foreign relationships. It seems like it is putting our national security in danger by telling a country we are on shaky ground with that we intend to break a treaty or agreement.… » 3/11/15 10:57am 3/11/15 10:57am