Wedding Etiquette Stuff - Plus Ones (update)

I am trying to make a guest list so that I can have a ballpark figure for setting a budget and other parameters for my wedding and start venue-hunting. Because I have an enormous family who all need an invite I am trying to be stingy otherwise. My mother's "wedding etiquette advice" usually is "who cares, do what you… » 3/23/14 2:48pm 3/23/14 2:48pm

He Made a Huge Mistake (warning: melodramatic)

My fiancee (bless his heart - yes, I am that serious) bought napa cabbage instead of romaine lettuce at the store. I thought it looked particularly lame in the fridge this morning when packing my lunch. Now? Now I have a salad that is ruining me. It is killing me. I want to come down on him with the fire of a thousand… » 3/18/14 6:22pm 3/18/14 6:22pm